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11. December 2018
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10. January 2019

A better life 18: Wishing

What does wishing have to do with a conscious life? Everything, in my opinion. Even though most people think it´s unimaginable, wishing has a tremendous power, cause by wishing, we control our “universe” and change it – according to our desires. However, if you´ve got mostly negativity in your mind, it is only logical if your reality / world looks similar.

In spirituality, you find various practices of wishing or how to draw future events in your life – only the wishes remain similar. This ranges from a new job over a sandwich to your life partner – you can wish for anything – as long as it fits into your own imagination. If, as a bad singer, I wish to become a pop star and can hardly imagine this working, then of course chances are high that the desired effect will never happen. But: If you put enough work into your wish – who knows where it might lead you to. Therefore, what do you have to pay attention to, while wishing?

Wishing should be learned…

What can you do wrong when you´re wishing for something? – Depending on your view nothing and everything! On one hand, you need the right mental attitude, an optimally worded wish and, on the other hand, patience, in order to wait for the fulfillment and to not consider your wish void too early .

For starters: find a quiet place to relax. If you like, you can meditate in advance or put yourself  in a relaxed state in other ways – in the end, it’s about being clear in your mind. Then, you phrase your desire in your thoughts and pay EXTREME attention to the wording. In particular, phrase what you wish for. NEVER what is undesired. In my opinion, the effect is exacerbated when you wish for a activity instead of an item: when you are hungry, you do not think about a Schnitzel, but see yourself eating the desired Schnitzel. If you want a new convertible, think less about the car itself, but you driving the sports car through serpentine roads, enjoying the sun.

…and needs time

In addition, you should install a time frame in your wish/ desire. Within the next three days I want to have a convertible right in front of my doorstep. But: Do you think that’s possible and does it fit your imagination? No? Can you imagine it within six months? Yes! Then wait six months. During this time you should stop thinking about the desire and let go. Otherwise, you block your own energy and turn up the difficult for the desire to materialize. Which way your dream comes into your life, is another challenge. Finally, we imagine that the convertible can only be realized through a lottery win; may stiffen us and block other ways it might come into our lifes –  rather remain open and let the universe work its mysterious ways. Here, the conviction, that the universe wants to give you everything you want,  but accepting it is far more difficult than you think, helped me a lot.

After the wish comes accepting

You have wished for a small financial blessing and wait, while you live your life. After a few days you find a bill in a car park, pick it up and rejoice – after all, the whole thing worked and you got money. But what if someone comes up to you and offers you an interesting, better paying job – does that count? I would say it definitely does, but this is up to you and your perception – among other things like your wording and your preferences. Still: it´s a fact, that you have to do something for your dreams – but in the end, it’s very simple: you follow your intuition and do the things, that you feel like doing in every moment. This way, you pave the way your dreams use to appear in your life.

Of course, everyone initially has trouble putting this manual into action. But, as always in life: you have to lose to learn to win. So, do not be intimidated by kickbacks, but see them as one more step towards your goal. I also think, that self-blocking plays an very important role in accepting – including knowing that you are worthy, that you deserve what you wish for and that you can be happy, even when others are unhappy. As long as you are unclear about these things, it could be that you stand in your own way – this lines can be a starting point, if your wishes do not manifest.

In one of my next posts, I will explain the English language and explain why we have been using only 50 percent of its possibilities.




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